2/10/09

Elusive No More!!!!!

Yesterday we had said we received P3 but were still waiting for the EP which can take awhile to get. Guess what????? We got an email tonight and EP was issued on 1/30/09!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh, we are so happy. Ask, wish, and you shall receive!!!! Now Jae-min will get a passport, a visa medical exam, and an entrance visa will be issued so that we can bring that little bundle into the good old USA. These are referred to as VI. Our agency will not be notified when this is happening so the next news they'll receive is TRAVEL CALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
How close do you think we are? We really still have no idea, but boy do we feel it's pretty close. It still can take awhile but I feel so much better about the news of EP.
We're really going to be his parents? We're really going to fly to Korea and have the experience of a lifetime? We're really going to welcome this adorable boy home as OUR SON? Oh, I'm crying here. One more tiny step thats between us and sweet Jae-min!!! After all this time, heartbreak, and worry it boils down to one tiny step. Truly amazing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2/9/09

Inching Our Way Closer.....

to our sweet Jae-min!!!!! Today I called a number in DC to check on our adoption case status. It appears that the embassy sent our packet 3 (P3) to Holt (our adoption agency in Korea). This is another step needed to happen before Jae-min is ready to travel. Now our agency in Korea will get all his necessary documents together and send them back to the embassy. They will then schedule a visa interview (VI) and make sure Jae-min is healthy to travel and then issue his visa.
We are still waiting for the elusive EP (emmigration permit) which we don't think we have yet. These are issued in Korea in batches every few weeks to a month. We're hoping this one little step doesn't hold anything up as everything is moving along so nicely so far. It's all planned out and we know we have no control. It's just nice to see movement and it feels encouraging when we know things are getting done. Oh, and it feels good to know that someone in Korea knows about our paperwork and is working on it.
So, good thoughts that the last two steps VI and EP come quickly, because we're waiting for the best one of all TC (TRAVEL CALL)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We're coming Jae-min.

2/5/09

Progress Report

When we got home from work today we had an email from our agency with a progress report for Jae-min. This is similar to a well baby check, just alittle more in depth. Let me just tell you, everything we read made us so so excited. He's doing so wonderfully!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It gave us info on his sleep schedule, his feeding schedule, and more on his development.
I'll admit to something that had me alittle worried before. As I'm sure you've noticed Jae-min was never smiling in his pictures. With my background I pick every picture apart as well as every well baby check. I was secretly worried about his serious face for awhile now. But, no more. Numerous times throughout his progress report it says "HUGE SMILE, LOOKS HAPPY, GIVES HUGE BEAUTIFUL SMILES" Yahoo. It goes on to say he is very interactive with his foster family, likes to play with them as well as plays independently. They also say he is EASYGOING Yes, yes, yes. I always thought we would have to put a little silly into him, but I guess he's just waiting to show us that toothless grin until we meet him!!!!!!
This report was so awesome. He is certainly perfect and my fears and worries are melted away. Oh and it says he's shy around strangers and stares at them. Uh oh
Please pray that Jae-min continues to do well. Pray that his heart is preparing to leave his foster mom (which he vocalizes omma it says) and pray that his heart will know us when we arrive. Please pray that our paperwork continues to move along without a hitch. Lastly please pray that we are the best mom and dad to this little guy. He sure sounds pretty special. We are completely and totally in love.

2/2/09

Keeping It Warm.....

until Jae-min comes home!!! This weekend Joe and I put Jae-min's crib together and put all the rest of the furniture in his room. Yikes, so at our house we have a room dedicated to a baby!!!! It was so surreal as we put the crib in place, then the dresser, the chair and ottoman, and lastly the rug. On Friday night we put up the border.....dogs. The room looks absolutely adorable and peaceful. I have found myself in there often just looking around and soaking it all in. We have registered for all the other stuff like bedding, curtains, decorations, and everything else baby so we'll wait and finish the room then. This room has been empty for so long and it's truly unbelievable that a little person will soon be living in it. We added the finishing touch to the picture.... a framed picture of Jae-min and his Omma. Fitting, don't you think?
Of course we had to try Martin out in the crib. We have found him in there laying on the rug and keeping it warm. We can't wait for our little one to come home and begin the new chapter of our lives together. Crib up, room together, check check. Baby.......well we're still waiting!!!!! Hope you like it Jae-min......


Martin will keep it warm until you come home!!!!!!!!!!!!


1/29/09

Oh, This Is Too Much!!!!!

Oh, bestill my beating heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! More pictures of sweet Jae-min arrived today. I can't stand it he is just soooooooooooo cute. And look at him, he's still wearing my hat!!!!! Oh, I can't wait to squeeze him and love him. This has been the best few days and I just can't believe it. How did we get so lucky? We've waited so long for this and those "in the know" always said that the heartbreak would melt away when you saw your sweet ones face and let me tell you it's totally melted. Every picture just solidifies that he is ours and we are his forever. No more tears of frustration, no more sleepless nights of worry. We have a peace in our hearts and someday soon we'll fly halfway around the world and become a family of three! How awesome is that?



In other news, we contacted the NVC today and they said we have been logged in and out of their system. In other words, our immigration stuff (I600) has been cabeled to South Korea!!!!!!!!!!!! Two more steps down. We think there are 3 more steps to be completed on the Korean side and then our phone will ring with TRAVEL CALL. This could still take some time, but wow, can you imagine, soon we'll get on a plane and our lives will never be the same again? It's all hitting me now. I know I keep saying its become so very real these last few days, but it really has. I have wanted to be a mom and see Joe as a dad for so long and its just inches away. Truly unbelievable!!!!

1/28/09

Our Heart's Have Fallen More In Love!!!!!

We arrived home tonight to the best picture ever!!! We have been wanting to see this image ever since the care package fiasco and have wondered frequently if Jae-min received it. Well, IT MADE IT and here he is:
I really didn't think he could get any cuter but again I was wrong. He is surrounded by all the stuff we sent him and look at that hat perched atop his cute little head. That's the hat I knitted myself and when I saw it on him I just bursted into tears!!! To think my hands made that and now its on his little head, well my heart just melted. Oh, this is too much. He's looking so healthy and strong, and chunky. We're still looking for his neck though Haha
This beautiful woman holding him so sweetly is his omma. Oh, she's gorgeous. Look at the love she has for him. You can just see it in her smile!! When I saw how she is looking at him I started to cry again. It's total proof that he's so well taken care of and loved. We are sooooooooooo grateful to this woman and now that we have a face to the word Omma it makes it ten times better. Thank you just doesn't seem enough.
We couldn't have asked for anything more today. To know his package made it there safely, to see him healthy, and to meet his omma is just more than we could wish for. This one little picture has made this very very real for me. I had dreamed of this picture and here it is!!! Jae-min, his omma, and this whole process really does exist, its not just a dream. WOW
I can't stop staring. We are truly lucky, blessed, and joyful that he was chosen as our son.
We love you sweet Jae-min!!!!!!!!

1/26/09

Happy Lunar New Year!!!

Tonight China and Korea are celebrating with their new years celebrations!!!! We hope Jae-min got to attend a party, maybe see some fireworks or a parade. Happy New Year buddy!!! We'll see you soon.